So uh it was my twentieth birthday on Wednesday. It's really hard to believe I've lived for two decades already. Of course, nothing feels any different, it's just weird to not consider myself a teenager anymore
I suppose this is kinda meant to be similar to a New Year's post, in that I'm kinda being thoughtful about my past year and what I hope for the future
In general, I think I've grown up a lot in the past year. I remember last year being severely lonely on my birthday and sad that only one person really remembered it. I was pretty darn depressed about feeling as if I lacked friends and was really bad at everything I tried in school. Frustrated, too, about not understanding how to get work done at the time
This time last year I was just starting to feel a little better about my own social life, as I had been invited to a pie party and it was super fun. I was also a few weeks into the therapist sessions and starting to feel more comfortable there. School still wasn't going so great otherwise, though
Obviously a lot of things have happened; getting a boyfriend, having my appeal rejected, massive depression, months of idleness, attending a new school in the summer and getting an apartment, to name a few
Though I've covered a lot of that previously and if you're actually reading this you've probably been aware of my personal life
I'm very glad I still have a super cute and supportive boyfriend and our year anniversary is coming up at the end of the month. I don't know how far I would be without him helping me through things, especially at the beginning of the year. I'm also really glad I've learned so much about myself and how to do things I never knew just a year ago. I've really had a bumpy ride but a lot of things have been learned and I hope others see that, too
Art-wise, I've been in a slump the past few months. Last year around this time I had mostly stopped doodling digitally to get used to Photoshop and was frustrated with my low grades for being 'too narrative' in my work. I remember I was getting comfortable with action poses for the first time, which is hard to believe since I do those all the time now. It's also hard to believe I was struggling so badly with my drawing class, partly for not knowing the materials whatsoever. I, of course, still understand it, though
I worked on some animation during my terrible idle time early in the year. I'm glad I did. I wish I could work on that stuff now, but the motivation is lacking. I don't have assignments prodding me to work on something and do my best. Every time I try to draw something not in class or a doodle, I get frustrated 'cause thoughts of how uncertain my future is fill my head and I get upset. I recall back in late high school I got in these moods once in a while. Never lasting as long as this one, but because of the same uncertain feeling. I can't say I'm unfamiliar with it, but it is very annoying
This weekend I'll be going home for the first time in a month and Brandon will be seeing it for the first time ever. Planning on celebrating my birthday, of course haha
Hopefully my midterms go well enough, as well as school in general. At the end of the month I hope to be helping with a Halloween party... I hope??
Then Thanksgiving stuff and Christmas
In November I'll likely be starting to work on my appeal again. I need that done by mid-December. Along with plans in case it gets rejected again
Otherwise lately it's been ups and downs, as usual. Visiting Brandon often feels amazing and I really hope I can help more than harm his work time. I've been getting comfortable with charcoal again, though we're almost done using it as a main material in class apparently. I've also been getting comfortable with acrylic paint and think I've found part of my painting style, which is a lot of finger smudging for blending. Art history I have the same feeling about as I did when I took the first part of it last year. World religions has been a mess of a class and I somehow became one of the leaders of one of the two groups for midterms so whoops
I think I should be able to get As and maybe a B no problem this semester, if I keep this up. This school lacks any challenge, though. It feels as if I'm in high school but actually doing homework when it's there
Otherwise I've mostly been spending time sitting around in my apartment. It's pretty lonely here, which is another reason why I like hanging out on MCAD's campus
I also really appreciate that I haven't really fallen out of any friendships I made there. I really wish I had classes with them once again, but when I see people on campus there and they say hello I get really happy that people remember me
Um but yeah most days are much better than they were some months ago but I really, really do miss stuff I took for granted this time last year
I hope twenty is a good year for me, yet I don't want to jinx it. Twenty is a nice, round number, at least